Wedding
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Baraat
The groom arrives at the wedding venue with his baraat (wedding
procession). A band of musicians strikes up some traditional
notes to announce their arrival.
The groom shares a drink of sherbet with the bride's brother.
The bride's sisters play pranks and slap the guests playfully
with batons made of flowers.
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Nikaah
The Nikaah or wedding ceremony can be conducted at the home
of the bride or the groom, or at any other convenient venue.
A Maulvi (priest) conducts the ceremony in the presence of close
family members and relatives. The 'Walis' (the father of the
bride and of the groom) play an important role in the ceremony.
The Maulvi reads selected verses from the Quran. The Nikaah
is complete after the Ijab-e-Qubul. (proposal and acceptance).
Usually, the boy's side proposes and the girl's side conveys
her assent.
The mutual consent of the bride and groom is of great importance
for the marriage to be legal. Neither of them must be forced
to enter into the marital contract.
It
is on the day of the Nikaah that the elder members of the two
families decide the amount of Mehar (nuptial gift that is a
compulsory amount of money to be given by the groom's family
to the bride's.)
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Nikaahnama
The Nikaahnaama is a document in which the marriage contract
is registered. It contains a set of terms and conditions that
must be respected by both the parties. It also gives the bride
the right to divorce her husband. For the contract to be legal,
it must be signed by the bridegroom, the bride, the Walis, and
the Maulvi.
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Blessing
the groom
The groom receives blessings from the older women and offers
them his salaam. The guests pray for the newly-weds.
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Dinner,
Prayers and Aarsimashaf
Dinner is a lavish spread. Usually, the women and the men dine
separately. After dinner, the newly-weds sit together for the
first time. Their heads are covered by a dupatta (traditional
scarf) while they read prayers under the direction of the maulvi
(priest). The Quran is placed between the couple and they are
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