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OVERVIEW:
In matters of the heart, you've always
preferred the chase to the capture. In fact, hard as it might be
to believe, once the courtship dance is over -- especially if it
doesn't last long enough or prove interesting enough -- you've actually
been known to lose interest entirely. You won't have that problem
this year though. From early January through early March, someone
who absolutely demands your respect will attract a healthy portion
of your attention. Suddenly, you'll be willing to suspend all rules,
clean up your act and go out of your way to prove how honorable
your intentions are -- just to ensure that you end up with the pleasure
of their long-term company.
Love won't be your only focus this year, however. You may need
to make a major decision regarding your job, thanks to two eclipses,
classic harbingers of change. The first, in mid-March, will get
the show on the road and probably make you restless enough to
start looking for other options. By the time the second eclipse
arrives in late September, you'll be more than ready to clear
out your desk. Giving two weeks notice may not be first and foremost
on your mind, especially if a better offer is already waiting
impatiently in the wings. Just be sure your next step is set in
stone before you burn any bridges.
Burning bridges will come easily to you by December, however,
and you won't have to worry about any repercussions either. By
New Year's Day 2008, you'll be amazed at how many great big changes
you've made, possibly even including a long-distance move. Regardless
of where you end up -- or with whom -- rest assured that this
will be a year to remember and that everything will be just fine
in the end. So don't worry if things aren't completely fine right
now. All that means is that you're not at the end of this process
just yet. Relax and do what feels right. You're reinventing yourself,
and if you're smart, you'll allow yourself to enjoy the journey
-- and to take your sweet time.
CAREER:Your powerful, restless energy
generally means that if you're not moving up, you're itching to
move on. That can be frustrating, as it might often seem that you're
packing up (or wishing you were packing up) just as you finally
get settled into a new position. Raw ambition can only get you so
far, though, and early this year you will find yourself inspired
to take a new look at your current position -- or maybe the next
one in line -- as worthwhile on its own merits. You won't be shedding
your ambition so much as fulfilling your desire to see longer-term
plans come to fruition. Expect a two-month period of solid, deeply
satisfying personal growth.
After all that, you will find substantial new territories to
explore in the spring. The lunar eclipse just before the Ides
of March brings subtle changes to your core mission. If your timing
is just right and circumstances favor you, it will be a time of
explosive growth. Your competitors don't stand much of a chance
-- unless, that is, you let yourself get too distracted by the
sheer volume of opportunities to pick a few and focus on them.
The end of summer brings a more intense solar eclipse and a slower,
quieter time for you and your clients. Spend the early autumn
working on negotiations or other interpersonal interactions --
your strengths will lie in that domain.
Toward the end of the year, you might feel the urge to move on
yet again. Try to channel that energy into something different
-- jettison some of the less profitable or interesting components
of your work, for example, or restructure your current approach.
When you reflect on the changes 2008 has brought to your working
life, you will see the deeper pattern that you likely missed while
it was developing all around you. And you're still trending upward,
even if it feels like you've stalled out. In the end, you will
have found the stability necessary for true growth.
LOVE: For some time now, your
love life has been in a holding pattern. It hasn't been dull --
you get the same endorphins from jogging in place that you do on
a cross-country run over varied terrain -- but you're feeling restless.
At the beginning of the year, you'll sense the opportunity to deepen
a friendship or reignite a relationship that you'd begun to take
for granted. Pay attention to the cues that indicate your partner
is ready to take your connection to a more intense level. From January
through March, give yourself plenty of time and opportunity to ease
into this exciting change. Weekend getaways to unusual destinations,
like a natural hot springs or a quirky amusement park, will help
you two focus on each other's hopes, however outlandish or potentially
embarrassing.
Around the middle of March, your ability to concentrate on the
softer side of life will be somewhat diminished. Two eclipses,
one in the spring and the other at the beginning of fall, suggests
that major changes in your day-to-day life are coming, and your
focus will be needed in other areas. You can keep your sympathies
supple through all this upheaval by lavishing attention on yourself.
Massages and daytrips to the spa will help you relax. Classic
novels with passionate, inward-focused characters will remind
you of your emotional needs, even while your ambition is being
prodded by more pragmatic challenges.
By the time the winter holidays arrive, you will begin to feel
more confident with the path your life is taking. And perhaps
to your surprise, your clear-eyed vision of the future may not
include a certain romantic partner. Think deeply about the situation,
but if you feel like cleaning out your closet to make way for
something new, don't second-guess your preference. You're coming
into contact with new people every day, and if someone else is
better aligned with your inner self, you won't rest until your
lives run parallel in all the best ways.
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