The key to his sexual behavior is impulsiveness. What he needs to learn is the give and take of a true sexual union. He is intolerant of opposition to any of his sexual fantasies.
Don't attempt to be a tease. If you promise, you'd better deliver. If you don't intend to bed the man, sit home and watch the late show. Aries doesn't play games. And if you're not prepared to perform the kind of innovative acts that until now you've only read about in books, stay home and practice your knitting. Anything that smacks of the routine will bore him just this side of hysteria. If you want to please an Aries man sexually, you will have to use your imagination-and no holds are barred.

He won't worry about consequences. When he wants you, he wants you. If you have an affair with this man, always plan ahead and have your diaphragm or IUD in place. Or be sure you've taken birth-control pills. He may have a condom somewhere, but don't expect him to use it.

Do expect him to carry the action. You may have suggestions, but if he accepts your ideas, he'll carry them a bit further. For instance, if you suggest that he suck on your nipple, don't be surprised if in a short time he's licking your navel, tonguing your clitoris, or working the area between the vagina and the anus. Be prepared to expect the unexpected. His untamed drive delights in attempting the shocking and forbidden. Aries men are explorers who must run the show. Thwarted, they become irritable. Positions will vary depending on age, but at any age he is young in spirit. He always prefers he dominating position.

And he won't stop short at sadism.

For example, he won't be satisfied to get his kicks just from your oral stimulation. You can expect him to start tugging your hair, pinching your nipples, or ramming his penis in your mouth to the point of discomfort. If you can derive satisfaction from this, accept it without a whimper, for it will increase his pleasure.

A favorite position is to place you on your knees leaning forward. At this point, he can enter the vagina or the anus. You may be surprised! However, no matter what his decision, he will expect you to cooperate. This basic position may take on variations, such as kneeling and leaning over a stool, couch, or bed, or standing and bending over using the furniture as a support while he approaches you from the rear.

An alternate position of the man-above-woman may find you with your shoulders touching the bed, or floor, as he raises your buttocks with his hands and approaches on his knees to spear you either in the vagina or the anus.

When an Aries male reaches middle-age he finds that he is not as potent as in his younger years. A wrong word at the wrong time will lead to temporary impotence-a particularly horrible blow for him. He will react in his usual aggressive fashion, probably by starting a dozen flirtations and romances with women half his age. He'll be trying to prove that he is the man he always was. And if he can't prove he's the man he used to be, it can lead to a breakdown.

In his prime, however, beware of his aggressiveness and his tendency (remember, I am always describing tendencies) to actually enjoy giving pain. He will enter a woman before she is ready, just to enjoy feeling her flinch. In oral technique he is rough and ready. During cunnilingus, don't be surprised if he bites and sucks hard on the clitoris. Or he may swing to the far side of the spectrum and complete his coitus with whips and canes. He especially enjoys spanking a woman before intercourse, and not only with the palm of his hand. He'll use a hair brush, a Ping-Pong paddle, a bamboo cane. If he finds a willing female, he will paddle her bottom until the skin is raspberry red and tears stream from her eyes. Her pleading and begging for mercy only excites him to further cruelties-and better orgasms. The more noise, the better he likes it. In some cases he may use a whip and leave welts on his partner's body. His aim is submission.

If he has enough money to spend on "equipment" he may have a special room complete with chains attached to the wall. These chains have shackles that bind a woman's hands and legs so that he can bite or pinch her nipples and have intercourse with her at his will. A few whiplashes usually melt away any resistance to whatever adventure he may be ready for. One Aries man I know has a favorite game he calls Horsey. The woman is on all fours and he uses a rope on her as a rein and bit. He enters through her anal opening. She moves forward slowly on her hands and knees, and every now and then he pulls back on the rope, hard.

Naturally, other signs in the zodiac have differing effects on the Aries individual, and men born under this sign will vary from one extreme to another. But they are extremists. So, girls beware! If you run across a "pure" Aries, be prepared to run to the nearest exit if his sexual needs show signs of becoming just a little too much.
Or stay-and enjoy. That depends on you, and your sign.

One way to handle him is to sixty-nine it. Then you're always in a position to say, "Look, we don't want to hurt each other-do we?"

Group sex doesn't faze our man. The more, the merrier. In fact, you can bet the wife-swapping in the neighbourgood was started by an Aries man. He likes to show off his sexual prowess, and he will usually come up with ideas that there a little far out and even seem on the kooky side to the others present. One exception. He will not play the passive partner in the anal sex game. Not that this offends his sexual sensibilities, but that position is a threat to his "manhood." After all, that is what "fags" do.

There is a tendency to sadism among many a man born under the sign of the Ram.