You have to be sincere, for they have a discerning eye for the phony. It's safe to open the conversation on an intellectual note. They think of themselves as people of reason rather than emotion, and believe you respect them if you appeal to them through their intelligence. On the other hand, they respect you if you make no attempt to boss them or force your opinions on them. Go to them with your problems and you will find them cooperative and understanding.

You'll find them where the action is, in a place that's different: the bar that has a special atmosphere, the cocktail party that is out of the ordinary, the usual excursion to any place that promises adventure. Aries is looking for excitement. They are original and will seize upon a new idea. In fact, presenting them with a new idea is an "open sesame" to their affections. If such an idea gets their attention, they'll be off to blaze a trail. They are involved with theater, music, and the local museum-usually among the leaders and surrounded by admirers.

One clue to spotting an Aries: look for those who simply can't pass a mirror without stopping to admire their reflection. Others do this occasionally-Aries always does.
A good preliminary gambit: make a suggestion of an intellectual nature. Offer to lend them an exciting new book or go with them to a new art exhibition or a play that's just opened. Show them you share their interests.

After you've made a date with an Aries, never be late. That will really start you off on the wrong cloven hoof. They place a great deal of importance on punctuality.

A woman dating an Aries man can expect to be taken to sporting events. While he places more emphasis on sports participation, he can and does appreciate spectator sports also. As a participant, look for him in the more active sports: boxing, fencing, skiing, tobogganing, the discus, and the javelin. Try to say something subtly flattering about his athletic skills.
If you want to get along with Aries, there is no doubt you're better off as a follower than a leader. Just say yes sir or yes ma'am to these "first sergeants" of the zodiac.

Don't plan an evening ahead with an Aries: let him or her lead you.

The following tips may help:

If you play records, choose music with a definite fast beat. Ssave waltzes and fiddles for someone else.
If you're meeting at your place, have some food handy, because a night that starts at 1:00 am may be going strong at 5:00am. Ariens are noted for their powers of endurance. Hunger pans will hit long before the sandman calls an end to the evening.

Because the Arien is impetuous and impatient, keep whatever precautions you think will be necessary within easy reach. Also keep towels, creams, and lotions that you may want to use handy. If your date is a long-fingernailed Aries woman, you may want to keep some antiseptics handy. She will especially enjoy your wincing as she applies the lotion afterward. An Aries male may or may not wait until you're ready for him, so have your jellies ready when he's ready for his jollies. Don't think he's going to read a book while you go searching the bathroom for a tube of whatdyacallit that you are sure you had someplace in the cabinet-or was it in the dresser?

Pace yourself. Both the male and female Arien are naturally aggressive, and if you try to keep up with the activity, you'll be left panting and exhausted too early in the evening. Try to relax, and you'll enjoy yourself more.