You won't find him breathing heavily. He isn't demanding or passionate. He plays a dual role-the one making love and the one watching, participant and voyeur. If he chooses, he can work any partner into the mood, for he knows exactly how to evoke the right responses.
The idea rather than the act attracts him; not so much the pleasure derived from sexual activity as what psychologists call apperception-the ability to perceive how he is perceiving. Thus, while doing, he is also satisfying his inquisitiveness as to how it is being done; while reacting he is studying how he is reacting. He is always both the doer and the onlooker.

He prefers sex with the lights on, and one of his favorite stimuli is to have mirrors set up so he can see the action duplicated from every angle. One Gemini male correspondent told me that he particularly likes to screen stag movies while copulating. He will then either emulate the action on the screen or experiment with his partner in an attempt to go beyond it.

He warms up gradually. Cunnilingus isn't especially his forte and he isn't turned on by fellatio, but he enjoys the other preliminaries. He can dally delightfully, nibbling your ears, lightly raking your back with his fingernails, artfully playing the game of sexual arousal before moving on to his goal. Coitus is likely to be fast and furious. Gemini, even when he has what he wants, is of two minds as to whether it was really worthwhile.

He likes to make love just about anywhere and is glib enough to talk his way into almost any woman's bed. But his performance rating is only fair, for he tends to be more interested in satisfying himself, or his curiosity, than his partner. Not too many woman complain, even if they sometimes suspect they are mere grist to the mill of his experience, for he is more than adequate in the areas of lovemaking that are so often neglected by other males. He tells a woman exactly what she wants to hear, creates a special aura of excitement, makes her look forward to a return match.

Warning: Even if he convinces you of his absolute sincerity, don't put too much faith in it. He is a Pied Piper who will be off to lead another victim to follow his winning tune. His sincerity is "real"-but only in the sense that he means what he says when he says it.

Group sex is a particular favorite, including bisexual activity, for he enjoys the multiple and varied opportunities it affords. Variety really is the spice of his life. A favorite variant is for him to make love to one partner while another masturbates in front of him.

A Gemini friend tells me he gets his most erotic kicks while skindiving. He and his partner come together twenty feet below the surface. He is excited by the concentration needed to have sex while continuing to keep his breathing even and regular as required for skindiving. He calls it "aquafucking!"-an ultimate thrill.

Gemini is intrigued by gadgets. He will experiment with hard-on pills, penis extenders, sprays to deaden nerves and ejaculation, and so-called orgy oils. Among Gemini male acquaintances, I count one who owns a battery-operated rubber penis that rotates, buzzes, or wriggles, another who habitually employs a double-pronged dildo with which he excites a woman at both ends while he is himself being fellated. And another who has a vibrator kit that has many different sleeves to excite and exhilarate all parts of the body. Trust a Gemini male to seek out anything that will promise to add more excitement!

Because he is pulled in two directions (the sign of the Twins, remember), he has a tendency toward bisexuality. Some, while retaining their heterosexual status, become transvestites, satisfying duality of desire by wearing a woman's clothes and makeup. A recent letter from a Gemini male correspondent told me how he had bought an artificial vagina in order to "really experience" the sensation of being a woman. (I'm sure that the experienced lacked at least one necessary ingredient.) However, the letter was interesting in its revelation of both the divided nature and the curiosity of the typical Gemini male.

His quest for more and more unusual forms of gratification inclines him toward violent forms of sadism in which there is always a clearly delineated master and slave relationship. Male Gemini is strongly attracted to prostitutes of the cheapest kind, who will do anything to satisfy a customer's bizarre taste for experiment. You can be sure Dr. Jekyll was a Gemini, for the celebrated duality of his nature that turned him into Mr. Hyde, the curiosity exemplified in his far-out scientific experiments, and his violent and degrading treatment of his lower-class mistress are all classic instances of Gemini behavior.