He needs constant encouragement. If he gets it, he will be a delightful swain. He enjoys playing the role of teacher, and a woman is wise to let him believe he is initializing her into the true mysteries of sex. He will take her step by step, explaining what he is doing, and why, and what she's supposed to be doing. Don't stop him along the way with any remark that indicates you know all about that or have done it before, or he will promptly retreat into his shell, perhaps to dream of all the wonderful things you might have done together.
He is both patient and aggressive, and you have to go far to beat a combination like that. From the first whispered suggesstion, he knows exactly where he is going-even though he may get there by a less than direct route. Let him take command. You'll like the trip. After all, it's as much fun traveling to a place as arriving.
In the beginning of a love affair, avoid any crudeness or vulgarity. He prefers to idealize a partner, and any jarring act-even if temporarily aphrodisiac-undermines the chances for a long sexual relationship. As time goes on, he will become more realistic, more willing to accept the kind of behavior that at first offends his conventional nature. At all times, thought, you must be on guard against a sudden return to inherent fastidiousness. If not dealt with sympathetically, this can result in a kind of emotional withdrawl-the crab scuttling back to a place of safety.

In foreplay his pace is deliberate and sure, for he's interested in making you happy as well as in satisfying his own need. Unlike men who think it is a proof of virility to treat their loved one with sexual comtempt, he has the all important sensitivity to mood that remarks the really accomplished amorist.

He prefers to begin intercourse somewhere other than in bed. Holding you in his arms, he may back up to a table or bureau and life you gently on top on it. There he'll move from manual stimulation to subtle penile foreplay. While you're straining to feel the fullness of his desire, he'll suddenly lift you in his arms, not breaking contact, and carry you into bed.
He is expert at clitoral manipulation. He has a special gift in this technique of foreplay. He prefers to perform with his fingers and not orally, but his touch is so finely sensitive that he literally has exquisite sensations in his fingertips.

A favorite technique is to put his penis between a woman's breasts, close enough to his partner's mouth so that she can flick her tongue over its tip. The combination massage by breasts and tongue increases his pleasure-and adds a good deal to the excitement of foreplay for her.

What aids Cancer in lovemaking is his superb power of recollection. He remembers everything he has ever done that has aroused a woman to passion. As he carries those youthful experiences with him into adulthood, he adds many imaginative refinements.

Another favorite technique is the "no-hands"coupling. Lying naked next to a partner in her bed, both with their hands clasped behind their backs , he fumbles and gropes into position-causing a good deal of sensual excitement in the process. The fun is heightened if all is performed in front of a mirror to reflect some of the erotic contortions. Sometimes a third party

is involved, who binds the lovers' hands behind them to prevent any "cheating and then watches the resulting action. Cancer enjoys the satisfaction of achieving really good intercourse-despite such obstacles.

Heterosexual Cancer male likes his woman to wear lacy, frilly underthings. Those who go over the thin dividing line into what some people call abnormality display a fondness for wearing those garments themselves. They enjoy dressing as women and passing themselves off in public as woman, and their mimetic skills and ability to guage other people's reactions enable them to carry off the masquerade perfectly. I was taken in by one such an attractive poised "woman" who came to me for a consultation. Only when I was working up "her" chart did certain inconsistencies appear. Finally my suspicions were awakened by her response that simply didn't jibe with what the stars indicated. At that point, "she" broke down and admitted to being a man. What was not visible to me even on close inspection was perfectly apparent in the stars!
Of course, many transvestites are pederasts, and the Cancer transvestite is no exception. Homosexuals born under this sign make greatest effort to achieve physical transformation into women, including surgical alteration.

It is well known that latent homosexual tendencies exist in clearly heterosexual types. Cancer male will often satisfy such a tendency by this method: He will ask the woman to part his buttocks and press her crotch so hard against hiim that her pelvic bone is pushed against his anus. A few vigorous movements in this position will be enough to bring him to orgasm.

Many men born under this sign are frotteurs. They enjoy rubbing themselves against the buttocks or crotches of strangers, and public conveyances offer them the best opportunity for satisfying the particular hang-up.