You have to be sincere, for they have a discerning eye for
the phony. It's safe to open the conversation on an intellectual note.
They think of themselves as people of reason rather than emotion,
and believe you respect them if you appeal to them through their intelligence.
On the other hand, they respect you if you make no attempt to boss
them or force your opinions on them. Go to them with your problems
and you will find them cooperative and understanding.
You'll find them where the action is, in a place that's different:
the bar that has a special atmosphere, the cocktail party that is
out of the ordinary, the usual excursion to any place that promises
adventure. Aries is looking for excitement. They are original and
will seize upon a new idea. In fact, presenting them with a new idea
is an "open sesame" to their affections. If such an idea
gets their attention, they'll be off to blaze a trail. They are involved
with theater, music, and the local museum-usually among the leaders
and surrounded by admirers.
One
clue to spotting an Aries: look for those who simply can't pass a
mirror without stopping to admire their reflection. Others do this
occasionally-Aries always does.
A good preliminary gambit: make a suggestion of an intellectual nature.
Offer to lend them an exciting new book or go with them to a new art
exhibition or a play that's just opened. Show them you share their
interests.
After
you've made a date with an Aries, never be late. That will really
start you off on the wrong cloven hoof. They place a great deal of
importance on punctuality.
A
woman dating an Aries man can expect to be taken to sporting events.
While he places more emphasis on sports participation, he can and
does appreciate spectator sports also. As a participant, look for
him in the more active sports: boxing, fencing, skiing, tobogganing,
the discus, and the javelin. Try to say something subtly flattering
about his athletic skills.
If you want to get along with Aries, there is no doubt you're better
off as a follower than a leader. Just say yes sir or yes ma'am to
these "first sergeants" of the zodiac.
Don't
plan an evening ahead with an Aries: let him or her lead you.
The
following tips may help:
If
you play records, choose music with a definite fast beat. Ssave waltzes
and fiddles for someone else.
If you're meeting at your place, have some food handy, because a night
that starts at 1:00 am may be going strong at 5:00am. Ariens are noted
for their powers of endurance. Hunger pans will hit long before the
sandman calls an end to the evening.
Because
the Arien is impetuous and impatient, keep whatever precautions you
think will be necessary within easy reach. Also keep towels, creams,
and lotions that you may want to use handy. If your date is a long-fingernailed
Aries woman, you may want to keep some antiseptics handy. She will
especially enjoy your wincing as she applies the lotion afterward.
An Aries male may or may not wait until you're ready for him, so have
your jellies ready when he's ready for his jollies. Don't think he's
going to read a book while you go searching the bathroom for a tube
of whatdyacallit that you are sure you had someplace in the cabinet-or
was it in the dresser?
Pace
yourself. Both the male and female Arien are naturally aggressive,
and if you try to keep up with the activity, you'll be left panting
and exhausted too early in the evening. Try to relax, and you'll enjoy
yourself more.
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