He is interested in a woman as an individual-not as a sex object. Many women think it's wonderful to have a man interested in their minds as in their bodies.
His approach will be slow and considerate. He prefers to enjoy the varieties of foreplay for a while before getting right down to the whiskers. This contrasts with his reluctance to "warm up" in other activities, but the explanation is simple. Foreplay is a very important part of "the game" to him.
In fact, his patient approach might qualify him as a real artist of lovemaking, except for his unfortunate tendency to stay at the preliminaries too long. You may have to urge him along. He can become so turned on to the delights of foreplay that he'll actually overlook orgasm! As a consultant I'm always amazed at the number of women who tell me that their Aquarius lover prolong matters to a point where they are brought to orgasm without penetration. The answer is not that the men lack the capacity-they just don't make up their minds!

Once his engine is revved up, however, he is a free and inventive lover with amazing persistence. He'll see you through a satisfying climax. In fact, you have about as much chance to divert him as to change a river from its course.

A woman knows what she wants can make him do anything. It's all in the approach. One woman with an Aquarius lover came to me with this problem: He wouldn't perform cunnilingus. I told her to try a liberal coating of hone on her vagina. It worked (Aquarius being very oral). But also being Aquarius, since then he insisted on a different flavor each time-everything from raspberry jam to oil of jasmine!

He'll try the newest and most exotic erotica. Skin thimbles are made to order for Aquarius. These are finger gloves, hardly longer than a conventional thimble, each of which is covered with a different kind of fur or bristle or even a tuft of tiny needle-like projections of a pliable material. The thimbles are used to massage sexually sensitive parts of the body.

Love is a playground for the Aquarius male, and he seldom plays a scene the same way. He is a true sex "scientist" and avidly reads all the books he can find on the subject. He is the type who will go through the Kama Sutra and try all the positions at least once. If the woman suggest she'd like a ménage a trios one night, he'll happily join in. And he'll make sure everyone reaches climax twice-once orally and once genitally. Next week he'll bring along two friends and make it a four-way scene!

Quickly bored with the same lovemaking position, he likes the complicated variations-such as holding the woman's legs in a wheelbarrow position while she rests her head on the floor. Sometimes his experimentation raises a partner to new heights of ecstasy, and at other times her uncomfortable unsatisfied and in pain. Unfortunately, you can't put him off by telling him anything he does is immoral or abnormal. Aquarius is the most tolerant, broad-minded sign in the zodiac, so nothing human is alien to him.

One of his favorite toys is the Japanese box. The box has two wires, each attached to an electrode, one of which is fastened to the base of the penis and the other designed to fit into the rectum. When a current is turned on, the high frequency impulses stiffen the penis and keep it erect until the power is turned off. As the frequency of the pulses that can be highly pleasurable-or excruciating.

Because he is highly experimental, he is frequently bisexual. And in heterosexual sex he prefers the exotic and unusual to the conventional. Men born under this sign usually like the French quilled sheath that serves either as a condom or a penis extender. Don't be surprised if he uses a tickler that has a lip in the shape of a devil's head with a protruding red tongue. When he goes erotic, he goes exotic!

His preoccupation with autoeroticism occasionally interferes with his sexual functions and contributes to such problems as delayed orgasm and impotency. Too much of his pleasure comes from the conquest, and the actual sex act is secondary.

His taste for novelty and his insatiable curiosity also favor more alarming sexual quirks-such as sadism. When he starts playing with matches, get your clothes on and get out-fast.