The first contact has to be made through the mind. He has to respect you as a person before he can be turned on to your charms. Once he is intrigued on an intellectual level, he can be reached on the physical plane. But he cannot attain sexual fulfillment without a previous mind-to-mind contact.
Aquarius is definitely not a loner. He is generous, open, sincerely interested in other people. In fact, he is only happy when involved in others. He has many friends, and will cheerfully stay up half the night discussing a friend's problems. He is always searching for an answer, searching for the truth. His nature is analytical. The best way to capture his interest is to present him with a problem of yours. He is always curious, inventive, and eager to help.

Shy and passive, he usually waits for the female to make the first move. On your first day you may have to take the initiative. That doesn't mean he's indifferent. For him passion has to be intertwined with friendship, and friendship is not something that happens overnight.

His tendency is to run on a low voltage. That also applies in business affairs. He's creative but not a hard worker. You may have to juice him up from time to time but this must be done with tact, for Aquarius resists domination. He resents having to make explanation to you or anyone, and a small misunderstanding can drive him into a shell. Outwardly cool, he is highly emotional.

Don't ask him to conform. He can't. His only way of dealing with tradition is to break it. That's the way progress happens, in his opinion. As one fellow born under this sign informed me, "You can travel around the world and you won't find any statues put up to people who were in favor of the status quo. Nobody builds statues to conservatives."
It's an absolute waste of time trying to pin him down. He must be free and independent. Naturally he loves to travel. A not-so-happy consequence of his independence is that, despite many companions, he often cannot develop a really profound friendship. He shuns the ties that bind, even when they are the bonds of friendship.

In company he appears eager to please and delighted to meet people, but most people sooner or later observe that there has been little real contact. Aquarius male slips away from you like quicksilver in the hand. He becomes bored and soon turns his attention to other people, other pursuits.

Confronted with a challenge, he wants to grapple directly with it. That is true of him in sports as well as in business. He hates to "warm up" and would far rather plunge directly into the contest. In television, Aquarius actors are notorious for their ability to memorize scripts quickly and to "come up" for a role without rehearsal. They are natural performers and orators and have an unusual ability to convince others.

In romance, Aquarius male responds to the subtle approach and is capable of the tenderest emotions. He is highly imaginative sexually-a frigid woman won't remain frigid long with him for a lover!

Unfortunately, he often loses himself in dreaming rather than doing and wastes his sex energies in erotic fantasies and masturbation.

He is restless, always looking for the perfect mate. He may fall in love easily but hesitates to marry. If you finally get him on the hook, you'll find he's a great catch. He is perceptive, kind, expressive, vivacious, and a good judge of character. He really likes people, and people really like him. Though he may have appeared cool on the surface, he smolders with masculine magnetism.

What's more, though he's always attracted to the new and unusual (Uranus, his ruler, is the planet of the unexpected), he's basically faithful. If he's occasionally flirtatious, that's because he's so curious about the unknown. Keep a loose rein and he'll come home again.

He can be a lot of fun-and very stimulating-for the right woman.