It's easy to meet them. You may find Aquarius at a party, a study group, or a group-travel tour. Other good meeting places: churches( They can be quite religious), theatres or concerts (they love music).
They like to surround themselves with people and love organizing get-togethers. If they are guests at someone else's party, you shouldn't have trouble discerning who they are. Look for the magnetic personality, the fascinating conversationalist who, even if surrounded by superficial people, isn't making the usual frivolous small talk. He or she will be discussing ideas and events.

If you don't read much or if you are not able to converse easily, Aquarius may not be for you. How will you keep them interested? Lets suppose you do have something in common. You must be interested in Aquarius or you wouldn't be reading this. How can you get into their good graces?
Well, let's see…

You have to make the first suggestion for a date. Keep in mind that Aquarius is basically passive in nature. Don't be timid about asking. Aquarius responds to boldness and confidence. Act as if it were impossible to fail.

For that first date suggest something that's intellectually stimulating-a lecture by a controversial figure; and avant-garde film; a stage play by Pinter or Pirandello. You can't go wrong if you start Aquarius's mind ticking. They are very much in tune with the times and keep up on the latest in the arts. Afterward you will find their comments to be both humorous and insightful. Later on, suggest going to an almost forgotten churchyard to read inscriptions on the tombstones. Or perhaps an early-morning visit to the market to watch trucks brining in the foodstuffs and enjoy that special dish of steamed clams. Always remember that Aquarius does not dig stuffy conventional outings.

They like to give and receive gifts. If you're the giftee, accept with grace. The gifts may probably be a little out of the ordinary but don't seem surprised. As for gifts to give Aquarius: appeal to his mind by giving him a chess or backgammon set, something handcarved and unusual. She likes large striking pieces of jewelry and ultra-sophisticated scents in perfume.

The course of your romance won't run smooth. You can't expect Aquarius to react as ordinary as people do. Their antenna are tuned in a different way, that's all, and you can't change it. There will be times when your feelings are hurt by a sudden aloofness, the reasons for which are shrouded in the mystery of personality. Above all, don't probe too deeply into the reasons. That is infringing on their privacy, and Aquarius values privacy highly.

One tip: You've probably been under close study. Some of Aquarius's apparent withdrawal is merely to see you clear from a distance. That's actually encouraging. It means that Aquarius is beginning to think of you as something more than a friend.